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As we celebrate our 3rd wedding anniversary, it’s hard to believe it’s already been three years since we said “I do” and over six years since I first met my husband. Time has flown by, but in the best way possible. Every day together has been filled with laughter, challenges, growth, and, most importantly, love.

Choosing to love someone every day is no small task. Marriage is hard, and there’s no getting around it. There are moments of joy, but also moments of frustration, vulnerability, and difficulty. But I’ve learned over these three years that when you are married to someone you’re truly meant to be with, those challenges feel manageable. A sense of ease comes with knowing that you’re both in it together—no matter what.

I’ll never forget the verse we chose for our wedding day—James 1:2-3:

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that testing your faith produces perseverance.” 

This verse isn’t overused or cheesy but resonates deeply. It reminds us that no matter the trials we face, they’re growth opportunities that strengthen our bond and encourage perseverance. When things get tough, we hold on to this verse, knowing that what we’re going through shapes us into better partners and people.

A Quiet Getaway: Finding Peace Up North for our wedding anniversary

To celebrate this special day, we took a trip up north, away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, to spend some quiet time together in the woods. Something about being surrounded by nature brings such peace—especially when I’m in his arms. In those moments, I realize how lucky I am to have found someone who loves me and truly understands me. The calm of the woods, the fresh air, and the simplicity remind me of the quiet beauty of choosing love daily. It’s easy to be distracted by the noise of life, but when we’re together, I feel a sense of home that’s hard to find anywhere else.

Our Song: "The Way You Do the Things You Do"

One of the things that makes our relationship so unique is how we appreciate the little things about each other. Our song, "The Way You Do the Things You Do" by The Temptations, has always captured the essence of what we share. It’s not just about the grand gestures—it’s about how he makes me feel through the everyday moments, the things he does without even thinking about it. Similarly, I love how he appreciates my quirks and habits, which make me who I am.

We don’t try to change one another except to encourage each other to be the best versions of ourselves. Marriage isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth. We both push each other to improve, whether it’s something small, like how we communicate, or something bigger, like striving for personal goals. But always, it’s about supporting each other and encouraging growth—not changing who we are at our core.

Three Years, Six Years, a Lifetime

Looking back on these three years of marriage and six years of knowing each other, I’m grateful. Marriage is hard, but it’s easier when you’re with the right person. Together, we’ve built something beautiful that I know will only continue to grow stronger as time passes.

Reflecting on these past years, we know we’ve only just begun. With every anniversary, with every year, we’re more committed than ever to choosing each other every single day. Whether we’re celebrating in the woods, dancing to our song, or enjoying the quiet moments together, I am so thankful for our love

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Here’s to many more years of love, laughter, and growth—side by side. ❤️

About Kelseycharmayne Photography

Kelseycharmayne Photography is a Michigan-based business dedicated to capturing authentic moments and telling the unique stories of each individual. Passionate about connecting with clients and understanding their vision, Kelseycharmayne specializes in creating timeless photos that evoke genuine emotion. Whether it’s a special birthday celebration, an intimate family gathering, or a stunning engagement session, Kelseycharmayne’s photography captures moments that matter.