As a Michigan-based nature and lifestyle photographer, I've seen it repeatedly: moms and families hesitate to book a photography family session because they feel they need to lose a few pounds or get Botox first. The reality? These small things we think are "flaws" aren't what your photographs should be about. Photography is about capturing you—the real, raw version of who you are right now. So, let's debunk some common myths that keep you from being in front of the camera.

Myth #1: "I Need to Lose 5lbs Before I Book My Family Session"

I get it. Society has this idea that we all need to look a certain way before we're worthy of being photographed. But the truth is, those extra 5 lbs or the stretch marks from carrying a child or any other "imperfection" are part of your story. They tell the tale of your journey, and that's something worth celebrating.

When you look back on these photos years from now, you won't think about the size you were or the cellulite on your thighs—you'll remember the love, the laughter, and the joy of the moment. Your kids won't care about the number on the scale; they'll care about the memories you created with them.

Myth #2: "I Need Botox or Facelifts to Look My Best in Photos"

There's a lot of pressure these days to look flawless and wrinkle-free. But in reality, what makes photos meaningful is authenticity. The laugh lines that appear when you smile, the soft glow of motherhood, or the way your eyes light up when you look at your children are the things that matter most.

No one expects you to look like a magazine cover model (and quite frankly, that's not even what real beauty looks like). Most importantly, you show up as yourself with all the love, wisdom, and strength you've accumulated over the years. Botox won't capture the spirit you bring to your family, but your true self will.

Myth #3: "I'll Wait Until I Feel Better About Myself to Have Photos Taken"

Here's the thing: life is happening right now. You don't have to wait until you feel perfect. If you wait until you're "ready," you'll miss out on the present. Your children are growing fast, and your relationships are evolving. These moments are fleeting, and photos are a way to hold on to them. They remind you of where you were at this point.

Everyone deals with insecurities—it's just human nature. But don't let those insecurities keep you from creating beautiful memories with your family. Your imperfections are part of what makes you you, and that's what truly shines in photos.

Myth #4: "Photography is Just for Special Occasions"

Photography is not just for weddings, anniversaries, or birthdays. It's also for everyday moments: the way your kids hold your hand as you walk through a park, the giggles that erupt when you tickle them, and the quiet moments when you're reading together on the couch. These everyday interactions make up the tapestry of life, and they're all worth documenting.

Your family's story is unique, and the moments you experience today will be gone tomorrow. Don't wait for a special occasion—book that shoot now and embrace the beauty of your ordinary, extraordinary life.

Myth #5: "My Kids Won't Sit Still for a Photoshoot"

Moms, I've got your back! One of the biggest myths about family photoshoots is that kids need to be well-behaved and still. The reality? Kids are wild, and that's part of their charm. The beauty of lifestyle and nature photography is that it's not about posed, stiff shots—it's about capturing those candid moments that reflect your family's true personality.

Whether they're running around, laughing, or even having a little meltdown, these moments are all part of your family's story. I promise some of the best shots happen when kids are themselves, not sitting still and smiling perfectly at the camera.

Why You Should Book Your Session Now

Photography is about documenting the real you. Not the "perfect" you that you think you need to be. The real you—the one with the laugh lines, the squishy hugs, the messy hair, the whole heart. Those are the things worth capturing.

Your life is happening right now, and you deserve to have those moments captured. Whether it's a family hike through the Michigan woods, a playful afternoon in your backyard, or a quiet morning at home, the most meaningful photos are the ones that reflect who you are at this very moment.

So, if you've been putting off booking a photoshoot because you feel you need to change something about yourself first, let go of those insecurities and embrace who you are today. Let's create something beautiful and authentic together—no Botox required!

If you're ready to capture the real moments in your family's life, I'd love to help you document your story. Contact me today to book your session, and let's make memories that will last a lifetime.